Understanding Dotster VPS

I recently went from dedicated to Dotster VPS to cut down on price and also because I do not have as many of clients I once had.

I chose their cPanel Premium
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Soon after I realized via the Virtuozzo Panel, that I have limits on everything
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I was pretty upset that none of these limits were posted anywhere on Dotsters site and its a surprise not welcomed.

I want to post some images so maybe you can tell me if their limits are reasonable or if they are way off.

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I had them actually raise my diskinodes from 400/500k to 600/700k
and also my quotaugidlimit from 100 to 200.

For some reason I have 162 ugid's but i have only restored 23 or so accounts on this server, with no other special things running besides the standards. Shouldn't I be around under 100 ugid's?

So my main problems that I have is the folowing limits:

diskinodes: I have only 35 gigs used of the 50 allocated, their initial quota of 500,000 seemed low. now they bumped be to 700,000 and i'm almost there.

quotaugidlimit: for only having 23 accounts it's crazy to believe that I had to have their initial limit raise to 200. I have noticed a lot more users like #2121, #13232, #124312 and so on compaired to my dedicated server. My dedicated had about 5, this VPS shows about 30 or so.

kmemsize: their limit is 18,022,400 bytes, which I always seem to be reaching.

privvmpages: hard limit is 292,912 and i'm usually exceeding this one.

Here is a screenshot of my QoS:
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Also, I noticed once I reach/exceed limits, the first things to be shutdown is my webmail and cpanel and so on, but the sites stay up Is there a way of setting up which resources are shut down in what order? To have mail up is the biggest request. I rather have ftp and cpanel down first.

I am really not happy with what is going on and gaining some user feedback would be great. I really wish Dotster had a complete breakdown of limits, before I bought.